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# Don’t get sucked in to thinking that you can only find girls to date when you’re out at a party or at the bar. They’re on the street, in a store, in class, everywhere you go. Just go out into the world and pay closer attention.
# Start by [[flirt|flirting]] with her a bit.
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Double Your Dating – An Objective Look at David DeAngelo’s Double Your Dating Phenomenon
The Double Your Dating eBook has its origins from David DeAngelo (real name Eben Pagan)’s article in the seminal seduction e-newsletter called Cliff’s List. Under the pseudonym “sisonpyh” (which is “hypnosis” spelled backwards), he wrote an elaborate piece on his theory of attraction and introduced the concept of “cocky funny”.
The article was an immediate hit and generated much interest in the seduction community. Intrigued by his theories, members of the community (also known as pickup artists, abbreviated as PUA) put the theories into practice and reported wildly successful results. David DeAngelo then expanded his article into an ebook, which is known as Double Your Dating today.
The Double Your Dating eBook is about 90 pages long, and is downloadable in the PDF format. It has nine chapters which fall under three major sections –
Section 1 – How To Think About Success With Women – David D delves into why women behave like they do, and the importance of inner game. This is where his teachings are different from other dating gurus who often prescribe ‘magic bullet’ solutions such as canned routines, lines and openers.
Section 2 – How To Communicate With Women – The nuts and bolts of Double Your Dating are here, with the introduction of his patented concept of “cocky funny”.
Section 3 – Exactly What, When And How – Tips and tricks on fascinating women (learn cold reading, cook a few meals, etc). Some solid stuff on the approach, email and number closing, as well as physical escalation.
What’s good about Double Your Dating
The concepts in Double Your Dating can be used either as a starting point for newbies in the dating game, or to enhance the skills of those who have more experience.
There is no need to memorize canned lines or hypnosis tricks which require lots of practice and prior knowledge (NLP) to pull off.
Ideas in Double Your Dating are probably ‘healthier’ than most other seduction systems out there as they emphasize on “inner game” and self improvement versus the “quick fix” approach of many other seduction gurus out there.
What’s not so good about Double Your Dating
No easy-to-follow, step-by-step structure that maps out the ideas in Double Your Dating. You’ll need to work extra hard to capture all the important points in the eBook and make them work for you.
To maximize the benefit from Double Your Dating, you will need a “mastermind group” to share ideas and experiences. Other products have their own ‘Mastermind’ communities, most notably Mystery’s Lounge, Speed Seduction on Yahoo Groups, and Real Social Dynamics’ private forums.
All in all, I would recommend Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo. There is no such thing as a ‘perfect’ system, but Double Your Dating is as close as it gets to perfection. If you do decide to purchase Double Your Dating, remember to look out for the associated mastermind groups as well as ways to map it all out in a step-by-step system which makes it easier for you to follow.
Derek Rake is the creator of the Dating Doubler System ([http://www.DatingDoublerSystem.com]), the free, unofficial companion guide to David DeAngelo’s Double Your Dating. Download a free sampler of the Dating Doubler System and also a limited edition review of David DeAngelo’s Double Your Dating at [http://www.DatingDoublerSystem.com]
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Big Avantages of Internet Dating – Why You Should Start Dating Online
There are several advantages to online dating when it comes to actually trying to get girls. It is very much true that it is easier to get girls online than offline since you can develop some sort of relationship talking and then it would be more comfortable talking to the girl when you finally meet face to face.
The Fear Of The First Date
When it comes to online dating the fear of that initial first date is completely gone. There is no more stressing on what to wear or what to say as you have already talk to the girl for quite some time and you have build a nice relationship based on communication.
Love Has No Limit in Distance
Thanks to the power of the Internet and how people have fallen in love with online dating, one of the biggest benefits that brings people who are truly seeking someone special that they can relate to who may not necessarily be close in location but through the Internet it may sure feel like it. Now you see people dating who are in completely opposite countries but online dating gave them the opportunity to meet. Shy Guys Never Finish Last
Shy guys usually don’t get the time of day when trying to pick up a girl in person but thanks to the power of the Internet even the most shy loser guys can get a girl online by just sending the right message and having the right profile format set up.
Imagine these and many other benefits you get just from taking your dating online.
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Attract a Woman Fast
Being able to attract women FAST is not a skill that every man is blessed with. You see guys all the time that seem to be able to hook a woman quick, and you want to be that guy. However, this is just NOT the way that it happens for you. You may wonder if there are any secrets that you should know about attracting a woman fast. There are. Most men will NEVER learn what it takes to attract women fast.
Here are a couple of tips:
1. You have to know WHY women are attracted to a man. It’s not the job, the car or the fat bank account that really attracts a woman to a man. It’s the way that a guy makes her feel. You have to be able to make her feel an intense attraction to you when she is around you. Otherwise, you are not going to be able to attract her fast.
2. You have to be able to flirt with her in a way that increases her attraction. She might be attracted to you from the beginning, but if you cannot increase her attraction for you, you are not going to get ANYWHERE. Most men are unable to make a woman’s attraction for them increase.
3. You have to be able to make her feel as if she is being swept off of her feet. Giving her that swept off her feet feeling is the key to making a woman feel an intense attraction to you. You are not going to be able to do this using cheesy lines or played out routines.
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Baby Gender – A Concern of Selecting a Baby Bedding Set
If we are discussing about baby bedding sets, the options available are enormous. The overwhelming choices can make your shopping more complicated. But don’t worry, this article will help you to narrow down the choices with some most popular choices of themes and materials of baby bedding.
The sets mostly include a blanket, fitted sheet, crib skirt, and baby bumper. Since children like attractive and colorful theme, the sets are made in such a way that could bring joy and also served comfortable for them. There is different selection of theme for boys and girls. People tend to choose color and theme according to this gender division, in example; parents mostly choose pink color for their upcoming baby. If you were asking “how about parent who keep their upcoming baby gender until the day of birth?” The answer is you can choose the neutral gender bedding selections, which is meant to fit both boys and girls.
The most well-known color for girls is pink off course. In fact, you can find all baby products with pink color. The variety of pink is also available with different kind of tone. Other colors that can be picked for girls are cream and chocolate. For the theme, your baby girl would be thrill with the Princess bedding them, it will bring kingdom and fairy tales atmosphere to their room. The sets are offered in various delicate fabrics. You also use bright silk, velvet color and healthy cotton to make it even sweeter. With the detail pattern such as pink polka dots or flower garlands, it would be a nice and girly bedding set.
Meanwhile for boys, the common color is blue or black. But, you need to re consider if you were picking black color since it will bring gloomy mood when you use to many dark color for your children bedroom. And for the theme, you will meet numerous of interesting themes. One of the most wanted themes is jungle or forest theme. And if you are not into green, you can pick the sea or sky theme which fills the room with nuance of blue.
The most popular is indeed the gender neutral theme. Why? It like I said before, some parents choose to keep as a surprise their upcoming baby gender. In addition, the parent will not need to buy new set of bedding for the next baby whether it is a baby boy or girl. The color for this theme is also more varied, and you will not get stuck between pink and blue. Others colors for neutral theme are blue lagoon, brown bark, the combination blue and brown, cream, and chocolate. An example of this selection is Banana Fish Crib Bedding, you may find several different tone for this theme.
Today, it is easier to create perfect nursery room for your baby. Therefore, don’t forget that the main concern is safety and comfortable bedding sets and you can excite your children with their imagination by bringing the theme to their room.
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Approach Anxiety – A Lifelong Fear With a Simple Solution
Approach anxiety has got to be one of the most common problems for many men in today’s society when it comes to picking up women. Once this fear has gone there is nothing stopping a guy picking up any girl he chooses whenever he wants to. All it then takes is to learn a few canned routines and off you go, improving along the way.
So what is “approach anxiety”? In simple terms approach anxiety is the irrational fear of approaching women. When I say “irrational” I mean that there is no real basis for men to react in this way when they want to approach a girl. Yes, they may have had a bad experience once where a girl had rejected them and ever since they have a problem with relationships in general but it is my belief that this fear is all down what we ‘associate’ to having a relationship with a girl.
What do I mean by this? Let me explain. If a guy was once rejected by a girl, publicly or otherwise, then that guy could then ‘associate’ a feeling of pain and rejection to either meeting a women, trusting a woman or maybe having a relationship with her. There is only one way of destroying this limiting belief and that is by facing your fear and developing a ‘thick skin’ so to speak.
Lets look at this more closely. How do we develop a “thick skin”? The simple answer is to get rejected more. “What?!? But ‘aint we trying to avoid approach anxiety here??” No, we are not. We are going to deal with the problem, not avoid it. The only way to destroy approach anxiety is to approach more women and if you get rejected just take it on the chin, smile and move on to the next girl.
Listen, every guy who has ever been successful with women has been rejected many, many times guaranteed! They just learn to deal with it and move on. That’s why now you can watch PUA’s approaching and opening 20 sets a night in the a club or bar easily. Obviously they have the skill set to back them up and the confidence to pull it off but they had to learn this too. I was reading the other day about one of Europe’s best pick up artists having never even kissed a girl until age 21!
This is what I want you to do and I promise you that you will be free of approach anxiety in no time. I want you to go out at least once a week and just practice opening up sets. Any sets. If there’s no one who catches your eye, so what!? Open them anyway. All we want is practice. Being sociable and talkative as a matter of course will greatly boost your confidence. You need to be opening at least 20 sets a week. Just open, make polite convo for a short time then make your exit. Thats it. Obviously, god forbid, if you actually find your having fun chatting to a group of girls continue on. Who knows, you might like it?
Try it. Open 20 sets a week for a period of around a month or two and you will find your approach anxiety will, if not totally disappear, diminish greatly.
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Reading Emotions Through Body Language
Effective communication does not just mean knowing the right words to say. Emotions and body language also play a very important role in getting your message across. In fact, body language says a lot about what you’re feeling and thinking as of the moment. People who are transparent could get themselves in trouble.
Most Hollywood celebrities and salespeople have already perfected the technique of keeping a poker face and staying still in the midst of a major hurdle (as with the case of gossip-ridden movie stars) or if they are being told something quite contrary to their point (as with people in the sales industry).
However, most of us do not have this skill of controlling our reactions to events and things said. Thus, knowing how to read a person’s emotions based on his or her body language and gestures is important for effective communications. Not only will this knowledge be able to help you rise above the pack, but also keep your nose clean.
How do you know if somebody is anxious, angry, happy, surprised, or sad by judging only his body movements? Here are some ways you can read emotions by observing body language.
If a person is happy he…
– smiles a lot. We might even find him doing a little skip as he walks.
– has relaxed facial muscles and fluid movements
– hums or sings to himself
If a person is anxious he…
– has a pale face and dry lips
– starts perspiring profusely
– fidgets a lot and has shifty eyes
– keeps shaking his leg or tapping his foot
– makes sudden movements after a while of being still
If a person is angry he…
– pounds his fist on the table and uses a loud voice to speak
– clenches his fist and leans forward when talking to you
– bares his teeth and appears to be snarling as he talks
– has tense muscles
If a person is surprised he…
– suddenly opens his mouth (hence, the expression ‘my jaw dropped’)
– suddenly takes a step back
– widens his eyes or clamps his hand over his mouth
If a person is sad he…
– has trembling lips
– is not able to look you straight in the eye and sometimes even has tears forming
– slumps his body
– uses a rather flat or weak tone of voice
These are only a few of the indicators of the key emotions any human being feels. Some might even overlap. For instance, a person with shifty eyes may be either lying or just nervous; so, in order for you to effectively interpret what he is feeling, you have to take the context of the conversation in point.
When you think about it, part of body language reading is skill and part is sensitivity. There really is no clear-cut rule as to what kind of body language pertains to what emotion, but there are general signals that can be found in most people.
In short, reading body language does not take knowledge of rocket science. Because body language is part of daily living, anybody who does not exhibit any kind of body language is considered wooden, as with a mannequin that has just one expression and pose all throughout. Because we are humans, we succumb to our emotions sometimes. And it is through body language that we convey messages that we don’t have the courage to say out loud.
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The first organ you need to control if you plan to get anywhere in your quest of attracting more women is your eyes. We all know that eye contact is important, but something funny happens when we make eye contact with another person; we become compelled to respond to them in some manner! When it comes to women, you can use eye contact to find out if she’s open to meeting you. In fact, in a way, she’ll be opening you! So here’s what you do. The next time you see a woman you want to meet, lock your eyes on her! Seriously, just stare at her eyes, even if she’s not looking at you. When people are out and about, they will usually look around to keep aware of their surroundings. This is an unconscious thing we all do. Eventually, the woman you’re locking onto will look around to scan the area.
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